a tuesday table…

a tuesday table…

I miss them this morning; thought about them throughout the morning… those “ancients” who will gather in a short while to do lunch without me. For six years we gathered as friends around a Tuesday table, usually at the local pizza place. It wasn’t so much about the food; instead, it was about the fellowship.
The gathering.
The coming together to hold hands, break bread, share laughter, and speak hope. It was about understanding, about setting aside personal preference in order to entertain the preferences of others. About loving beyond limits and allowing friendship to birth over salads and drinks and believing that, just perhaps, a table was meant for more than physical sustenance. That a table was meant for grace. God’s grace—another yet undeserved kindness from his heart because he better understands what happens when hearts connect across the table for kingdom consequence.
They served my heart well, those precious “ancients” (affectionately titled in the spirit of Hebrews 11). They didn’t know at the time all of the ways that their lives would impact mine; they simply did what they’d been doing most of their lives—
Living life as it comes; not being afraid to embrace new experiences, new people, new ideas, new routines. No, six years ago, I was their new. And they loved me; they love me still, and today as they gather around that table, I wonder if they notice my absence. I certainly notice theirs, and a tear or two falls in remembrance for the lavish gift of memory I now hold as my own.
Tuesday tables. The gathering of the saints. I don’t know where you’ll be spending yours today, but I’d certainly like for you to be a part of mine. And while we won’t sit in close proximity to one another, our hearts simmer together in this moment. And just for fun—just to feel less disconnected to my Tuesdays, I’d like a little conversation. I’d like to know what’s on your mind.
What you’re having for lunch.
What costumes your kids have chosen this year.
What Bible study you’re working on.
Where the good deals are hiding.
What books you’re reading.
What ailments riddle your heart and flesh.
Whose coming for dinner.
What’s on the menu for dinner.
What you’ll be watching on TV tonight.
When you’ve known grace in the last 24 hours.
What you’re praying about.
Generally speaking, any what, where, or when about your life.
Stuff like that. Whatever you’d like to tell me as we have lunch together this Tuesday… all day. It doesn’t matter if you miss the eleven o’clock hour. Tuesday lunches have no time constraints. They pour forth goodness all day long, seven days a week, sowing God’s grace along the way and as it arrives.
So join me. Tell me. Lavish me with nothing and with everything and make my table full. I know that at over at Lisa’s place, she’s serving up JiffyPop. And at Beth’s? Starbucks. Make sure you stop by there as well and pull up a chair for a moment.
Today, you’re in charge of the menu. My plate is empty; come and fill my hunger with your fellowship. I’ll eat most anything you’re serving (minus collard greens and chicken & pastry). As always…
Peace for the journey,
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59 Responses to a tuesday table…

  1. Good Morning Elaine…how I LOVE this idea. And how I would LOVE to sit down with you face to face and chat and chat and chat…But this is such a good idea too. Today I am ready to go over to my mom's house where I will pick her up and take her to her speech therapy. She had a stroke a little over a month ago and is really doing quite well. Still struggling with her reading, and with soo much fatique. She is herself, and yet she's not. After speech (if she is feeling up to it) we will head to Mimi's for lunch where she LOVES their French Onion soup. We will need to discuss the holidays and make our plans. There are soo many of us anymore it is a HUGE chore to tell you the truth to coordinate everyone's schedule as best we can. How I love my mom and love having this time with her. I am reading Karen Kingsbury new book for fun and studying the book of Romans again. Sooo much in there. I am REALLY REALLY struggling with my knees. Oh how they hurt. I needed the surgery BEFORE I ever had the mastectomy's, but the doc wants me to wait and give my body some time before another major surgery AND I need to lose some weight…soo hard when you have to sit still. I have soo much I want to do and everything is SUCH an effort. OK, you can see I could go on and on but I really must get on the road. I am praying that your day is a good one. That the Lord will touch and heal your body and give you the strength to get through each day. What an inspiration you are to me. BLESSINGS AND HUGS, Debbie

  2. Mimi's for french onion soup? Where's Mimi's? I want one. And I love my mom as well; so glad I have her with me in this season of life.

    Thanks for stopping by Debbie.

    ~elaine

  3. Oh Dear Elaine,

    What I am hoping to do for lunch, I think, is go to the local coffee shop and have one of their panini sandwiches and a hot hazelnut breve, half regular/half decaf. 🙂 Then I have to be at my daughter's school at 2pm to help her dress in her princess dress my mother-in-law stayed up till 11:30 sewing for her (I can barely do a straight line, so glad she did it for me!!!) Then after her little Halloween program, we are running over to get Peter from his school, and coming home. It's very windy and rainy here, and I have NO idea what to do for supper!!! My son loves pork chops, so maybe we can pick some up at the store on the way home from school and broil some (can't grill, too windy).

    The bible study we have been working through at our church is Breaking Free. Last week we didn't meet because our church hosted the Great Lakes Baptist Conference Annual Meeting. We had around 200 people in attendance over the weekend. I was the point person in charge, and God was so good. It was an amazing weekend!!! I am so thankful for how God sustained me through it and blessed so many of us through it; and yet, I am so excited to meet again together with my gals to do the bible study this week. I missed them last week.

    Yesterday I had my counseling appointment. I was kind of dreading it because I was going to be dealing with a hard relationship I had been in. It was a very difficult session. But though it was only to be a 60 min. session, my counselor wasn't in a hurry. She let me read the "no send" letter I brought in at my own pace, asking questions in between. And because of not feeling rushed, I felt like I could actually just let myself feel the emotions and take the time to try to name them, put words to the thoughts. We spoke a lot about forgiveness, both God's and my forgiving myself. And grace both Gods and giving grace to myself. we went over by 15 minutes, and in the end, after we closed in prayer, I was able to share with her something I had observed in her today, and she confirmed it, and though no details were given, I am going to be praying for her… she's dealing with tough stuff too right now.

    It's amazing how God brings people together, Elaine. I wish I could sit down across the table with you, not necessarily to eat, if you didn't want to, but just to talk and share and hopefully laugh together too.

    God is so good and so faithful, even in the midst of the hard stuff too that I dealt with yesterday. He gave me grace and spoke to me through several people of giving myself grace and treating myself gently.

    Oh, and I feel so disconnected from Peter's class at school. Hard to connect with his teacher and hard to figure out how to get more information from the classroom.

    And, Glory!! I took 2 days off of work (yesterday and today) to regroup after my marathon weekend. How wonderful to have had my hubby take the kids to school (he works 2nd shift today) and be able to sleep in!!

    Tonight is time to enjoy the kids, and have fun with them and ignore the mess of the house for the time being (as best I can) 🙂

    Love you my friend, and thank you for asking us all to chime in. Sorry for the book, but those are some of the things going on!
    Heather

  4. Dear Elaine, Today, if the Lord is willing, I will be visiting my mother who has alzheimer's and may ask me again what my name is. But I am thankful to be spending time with her as that has not always been the case. I don't know yet what I'll have for lunch, maybe cheese or tuna. I need to stop by the dr's office and hand them a fax form. And I need to get dinner ready early for hubby because we have a meeting – bible study marriage study sort of fellowship thing. I hope to find some time to write and maybe work on my art… and then there's the laundry etc. Prayers and blessings, Sherri

  5. Well, I just love you all. Thanks for telling me all about your day. So many agendas we carry… some heavy, some light. Some full, some feeling rather empty. I hear you, taking it all in and will mull over the "trust" you've given to me.

    On a lighter note, not that anyone cares, my daughter is dressing up as "Thelma Dinkley" from Scooby Doo this (did you know her name last name was Dinkley? I didn't either), and my son will be Ahab from Moby Dick. I know… don't ask.

    ~elaine

  6. Hey girlfriend,

    What's with the minus collard greens and chicken? Two of my favorites. 🙂

    We've been Email chatting a bit today so let me see if I can answer your questions but first let me say this is a BEAUTIFUL and "just like Elaine" message to share our hearts one with another. Love it! Love you.

    Ok, you asked:

    What you’re having for lunch.
    — don't know yet.

    What Bible study you’re working on.
    — Jonah at church. Isaiah and my own at home.

    Where the good deals are hiding.
    — for me? CATO and charming charlie I think is the name. It's a new store near us at the mall and it's huge! My leopard bags, scarfs and slippers are awaiting me there.

    What books you’re reading.
    — Just finished Everything by Prayer about Sonja's Dad. Loved it! In the middle of Friendships for Grown-ups by Lisa Whelchel. Also re-reading "the Bait of satan". I'm reading Peace for the Journey and making notes. I think that's by Elaine (HEHEHE). I am knee deep in "PRAYER" by Philip Yancey. I have a few unread sitting on the floor near me awaiting their turn.

    What ailments riddle your heart and flesh.
    –a few things Elaine but truth be told the DIVISION in the BODY OF CHRIST has always wounded my heart and it's worse especially what I see between women. Saddens GOD's heart I'm convinced of it because He drives me to my knee to PRAY for the BODY often.

    Whose coming for dinner.
    — hubby and my last baby at home preparing to leave me next yr for college (BIG CRY).

    What’s on the menu for dinner.
    — curry chicken, veggies, steamed rice and salad.

    What you’ll be watching on TV tonight.
    –going to prayer meeting. When I return home I don't prefer TV after that time with GOD.

    When you’ve known grace in the last 24 hours.
    — moment by moment in my life and that of my family and I'm so thankful to our LORD.

    What you're praying about.
    — too much to share but I will say this. The vision God gave me in 2001 is coming closer… praying that I hear, move on it and obey Him and remain humble unto His glory!!!

    Generally speaking, any what, where, or when about your life.

    –I'm LOVING Jesus. Determined to live for HIM and to lay down every stinkin' thinkin' part of me that gets in the way of it! Determined to crucify that flesh DAILY by submitting to the Holy Spirit.

    Resumed writing my book. Excited that GOD is using Jill to help me get a grip on my menopause so that I can resume my weight loss and more importantly FEEL BETTER.

    THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THIS MESSAGE that I've not said is that I LOVE YOU ELAINE! I thank GOD for our off and on line friendship.

    Keep pressing forward in Jesus Name! Thanks for lunch. Looking forward to hearing more about you at the next Tuesday table.

    P.S. Beautiful photo of the saints!

  7. Love the costume choices. I just ran across a friend on FB (she has 3 boys) who just finished a peter pan costume, and is now trying to figure out how to do a "Gollum" costume. 🙂 Yikes! wouldn't want to be her at all!!!! 🙂

    Maybe the kids and I will end up eating out tonight, as I think we have to find a few things yet for Peter – he wants to be a vampire, only because of the crazy teeth he would get to wear! LOL wow. 🙂 The life of a first grader!

  8. I may have to get real creative when it comes to today's lunch having just had oral surgery yesterday. I'm thinking a milk shake, or bread pudding. Calories don't count when you're under the weather!

    I have to believe the lion's (like Lion of Judah) share of your healing abide in the heart of your Tuesday Table Mates. What a powerful prescription; a tonic unequaled.

    Count me in …

    Love,
    Kathleen

  9. You are so right, Sassy. Calories don't count when under the weather. In fact, I think I'm the eatinest', fattest cancer patient at Cape Fear Valley Hospital. I think me penchant for hoarding my "middle section" all of these years has aided me in this season.

    Feel better soon. If you were here, I'd head over to our favorite milkshake spot (Cookout) and get you whatever flavor you desired.

    Did you ever watch Nick's video post oral surgery? Here's the link…

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHyODUzL_kQ
    peace~elaine

  10. Good Afternoon Dear Friend…
    Thank you so much for inviting me to lunch. I have been home alone this morning as the winds raged here in Indy. What a delight it is to join you in fellowship, companionship and love. I enjoyed some talapia, edamame and rice for lunch… Jim really hates it when I fix fish (he's not a seafood kind of guy – says it stinks).

    Right now I am in the midst of LORD Teach me to pray in 28 Days by Kay Arthur… my prayer life has seemed a bit, well lackluster (maybe not a great word) lately. I feel like I have been going through the motions. This study certainly will get me back in line w/ the Spirit! 😉 The good deals… well I am now addicted to Aldi – at least for cheeses, hummus, cereal etc. Their prices are wonderful!

    Jesus will be our only dinner guest tonight and I am not sure what we will be serving, however I have no doubt He will certainly be serving up a heaping helping of grace and mercy! We will be headed to the Y for our first spin class of the season. Alas… our outdoor cycling days are coming to a close. The winds of change have blown in. After dinner I will settle in to watch The Biggest Loser and then Parenthood! I LOVE The Biggest Loser – so inspiring. I always say I would love to have Bob and Jillian kick my rear end for a few weeks in the gym. OK, so it might be a love/hate thing… but ultimately good for my physcial fitness!

    I've been worried about my mom. She's been having some heart issues lately. Today another heart cath and this other test I cannot pronounce were done. She had a 75-80% blockage, and a stent was put in (sigh) .

    Fall has settled in over Indy and I know the winter will be here soon. I am prepared… firewood is stacked, my favorite chair by the fireplace beckons me, and I have a stack of my favorite magazines etc in place. Oh, and I picked up the Mitford Bedside Companion for 5 bucks at Big Lots (another of my favorite shopping haunts). It's a treasury of all our favorite Mitford moments (for those who have enjoyed Jan Karon's Mitford series). A cozy book, for a cozy afernoon!

    I think of you often my friend… I know this is a season of so many different emotions for you. I thank you for your witness, your honesty and your love of Jesus that you are showing in this journey!
    Can't wait until next Tuesday… are we having lunch again????
    Love You!
    K

  11. Oh my goodness, Kristen, I adore Father Tim and Mitford. Just noticed Jan Karon has a new one out in her latest series…

    LOVE the Biggest Loser and will be watching it tonight, although I'll give the DVR a headstart so as to avoid the mindless repetition via the host… honestly, she's so redundant! I will say that Jillian's "self-help" chat sessions get under my skin. But I love to see them all sweat under her pressure. Makes me wonder what it's really like while taping.

    Enjoy those IN breezes and change. You know my dad is from Tyner, IN. I spent many a childhood days roaming the flatlands and enjoying time with my grandparents. Wish you were close; I wouldn't "spin" with you, but I'd sure do lunch.

    Love you.

  12. What a great post! I just love your 'ancients'… and I also love your idea of sharing lunch today…

    i just finished a peanut butter & jelly sandwich and skim milk…

    no costumes anymore, just for the littles…

    sitting out of a study at church this time, but in Psalms on my own, then Romans…even as I am still finishing Peace For The Journey, which I have cherished, Elaine!…

    the good deals are at Dollar Tree, over and over, but especially right when the new season stuff appears…

    no physical ailments, but dealing with trusting God at deeper levels for everything, and always…impatience! 🙁

    A close friend from Tenn. just arrived and he and hubby are off to Canton, our huge outdoor antique flea market, like little boys, all excited!…

    Dinner will be courtesy of On The Border, chicken fajitas…

    Maybe Dancing with the Stars…is that tonight?…

    I've known grace this morning, within the last hour, from my hubby :)…

    Praying for a deeper knowledge of God, as I seek Him more and want this race to be stronger now than ever before…

    Good points to ponder, all of them. Also, in the shower as I shampooed my hair last night, I prayed so specifically for Elaine and the others who occupy 'those chairs', that you would be an encouragement to them as they see your faith, and as I prayed, I said, Lord, Elaine needs to be encouraged too!! He said… she will be, I AM HER ENCOURAGEMENT AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE!

    So there, you asked for it, you got it all 🙂

    Love you!

  13. P.S…. I forgot to mention Jan Karon's new Father Tim book… get it and read it! You will love it!

  14. On the Border? I want one of those too! You mentioned shampooing… when you shampoo today, remember my stubble. My head is raw and tender and very exposed from the dying remnants that remain. Too brittle to touch and control, thus making my nighttime even less controllable.

    Oh, and just so you'll know, I had an angry session last night; fuming mad with life. Let it all out, and then I began to pray. Prayed for every person I could think of in our former congregation. Remembered where they sat, thought about them, and brought their names before the Father. After 30 minutes of "praying through" (thank you Armin Gesswein), peace arrived, and I went to sleep for a bit.

    I love the legacy of your father, and I love that our paths have intertwined for such a season as this.

  15. Let's see ~ for lunch I ran to the Border (Taco Bell) for a bean burrito on my way home from work. I am preparing for Women's Bible Study tonight, so I needed something fast! There is a BIG storm brewing here. The wind is blowing like crazy, kind of scary!!

    I am reading Sarah's Key right now. So far, loving it. A story of a little girl during the Nazi invasion. Haven't gotten too far yet, but it has captured my attention, so I am continuing with it.

    Our life is crazy, hectic right now. Anna just finished up volleyball and starts basketball next week. Both boys are doing well in school, and we are looking foward to Thanksgiving break.

    Hoping you are having a good day. Praying for a peaceful, restful night.

    Be on the look out for some goodies I sent you along with my order for some books!

    Talk to you soon!!

    Love you much!

    Lori

  16. Oh, Elaine…what a delight that you asked us to share Tuesday with you! My day got off to an earlier than usual start this morning about 3:45 when my weather alert radio went off to tell me that we had been put under a tornado watch until noon today.(Now they have extended it until 7:00 tonight!) I could not go back to sleep and felt really yucky so got up and checked my blood pressure. Yikes! I'll not tell you how high it was! Took my b/p pill and then had to stay near the "powder room" the rest of the morning! We gave our new storm house it's "maiden voyage" this morning while under a tornado warning but God's GRACE abounded and no tornado reared it's ugly head. 🙂 I'm pretty sure all we will have the rest of the day is just plain ole rain….which we were needing badly.

    As for our lunch, I made Benny some stuffed bell peppers, cooked fresh turnips, and got squash out of the freezer and cooked it with butter & onions. Not a very thought out menu but it sufficed. However, not being a stuffed pepper lover, I had a peanut butter & honey on wheat bread sandwich and sweet tea. 🙂

    Right now I'm doing Beth Moore's "The Inheritance" Bible study. Last week..Session 6…was just SO wonderful. It touched the heart of every lady there!

    Books: Just finished listening to Jan Karon's "Home to Holly Springs". Holly Springs is very close to where we live so it made it even more interesting to me.

    Ailments: Well…my blood pressure mostly. And my psoriasis, which seems to get ever worse instead of better.

    TV: Don't watch too much regular TV cause we only have an antenna so that really limits us. But I'm sure we'll watch a movie of some kind on DVD. Last night we watched Janette Oke's "Love's Abiding Joy".

    Costumes: Gave our granddaughter a Princess costume last week for her birthday. She's had all the ones from Walmart in years past…Cinderella, Snow White, etc…and wears them almost every day to play in…until they are just worn out. This year I found a really nice and different princess costume at DIRT CHEAP…a new store in our area. This dress is not powder blue or pink or even bright yellow/red/blue. It's burgandy with gold trim and a gold tiara. Really fancy with a hefty price tag still on it but gotten for a real REAL deal at Dirt Cheap. Daughter in law informed me that Leah is not a princess when she wears this new dress though….she says she is the "Queen of Israel"! ha Not sure where that came from but I like the ring of it.

    Supper: Leftovers. Or cereal. whichever we are most hungry for.

    Elaine….thanks for taking time to visit with us when you have SO much going on in your own life right now.

    Love you much my friend!

    Marilyn…in Mississippi

  17. Marilyn…

    I'd take your fresh cooking anyday; your jam sure rocks! I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who eats cereal as a meal… breakfast, lunch, or dinner, doesn't really matter. If the shoe fits!

    I had pimento cheese for lunch, along with applesauce. I adore pimento cheese, especially homemade. Haven't been able to find anyone to make me some around here, so Harris Teater has a gourmet blend.

    I'd love to do the Inheritance series. I understand it doesn't have any homework… does it?

    Lori, you might look at that one as something for your girls to do. Can't wait to get my Ohio goodies! Juanita brought me some chocolate from Coblentz. Long gone by now… honestly, I've turned into a forager! A cow let out to pasture!!!!!!!!!!!

    Lidj, love the song. Never heard it before; carried to the table of grace… what joy and bounty is served there. Everyone take a listen!

    Hope Jadon is up for walking mom this afternoon. I don't trust myself to walk in isolation. A little weak in spirit.

  18. Elaine,

    Well, I probably should have e-mailed this instead of posting it in your comment section…I hope you don't mind! Here's what I'm doing/thinking/praying about today on this Tuesday Table:

    * What you’re having for lunch. – I'm going to have a frozen burrito during my lunch break – oh yum!
    * What costumes your kids have chosen this year. – My kids are grown, but my daughter tells me that my little granddaughter is going to be "Hello Kitty"! I'm anxiously awaiting pictures!
    * What Bible study you’re working on. – I'm doing a study called "The New Eve". I must admid that it is, um, unique. However, it is stimulating wonderful conversations between all of the ladies and as a result, our Bibles are open on the tables!
    * Where the good deals are hiding. – http://www.restaurants.com You can find discounts and coupons for local restaurants!
    * What books you’re reading. "The 36 Hour Day". It is a great resourse for anyone dealing with a loved one with memory loss in their later years. (My mom is struggling in this area and I want to understand in order to help…)
    * What ailments riddle your heart and flesh. – Hmmm. Well, at the moment, I am healthy – praise God. However, my dad is currently going through tests to find out what a mass is that is in his bladder. But, I know that God is in control and I'm trusting in Him!
    * Whose coming for dinner. – No one tonight! I'm heading to Bible study with the girls!
    * What’s on the menu for dinner. – Since I'll be out, when I get home I may just pop something into the microwave…something simple and fast.
    * What you’ll be watching on TV tonight. – I'm not sure. We just decided to disconnect the cable. Now we use Netflix and watch whatever we want without the terrible commercials! (A great deal by the way!)
    * When you’ve known grace in the last 24 hours. – The grace that I've known and seen has been how God has enabled me to handle the special circumstances with my mom. I know that through Him I can do all things! I love her…but during this time, I can get very frustrated. God is allowing me to show love…and that is only by the grace that He has shown me.
    * What you're praying about. – Besides my family, I'm praying about where God is leading me – where He wants me to focus at this point in my life…

    * Generally speaking, any what, where, or when about your life – Ok…here's a silly thing about my life. I'd like a cat. Being an "empty nester" I'd love to have a little life at home to care for. To have someone to greet us when my husband and I get home from work. I know that God will show me the right time. Sorry that was a trivial thing, but you did say "general thing about my life"! Ha ha!

    Thanks for letting me join you today to "do lunch"! I'm still praying for you, Elaine!

    Blessings, Joan

  19. I love the pic of you with the "ancients". I hope you have that one framed and proudly displayed!

    I guess if I can't have lunch with you in person, this is the next best thing, right? So, here goes:

    What you’re having for lunch.
    I had soup beans and corn muffins. Bought it at a new bakery that just opened here. Yup, if yer town's fancy bakery serves soup beans and corn muffins fer lunch…you might live in redneck country! I also bought two cupcakes…one cookies and cream cupcake, one double chocolate chip cupcake. Bill and I will halve them and share – he doesn't realize that, yet, but that's what we're gonna do. That way, we'll get to try both!

    What costumes your kids have chosen this year.
    It's hard to tell…they're both away at college. 🙂

    What Bible study you’re working on.
    I'm not participating in an official Bible study (we don't have many around here), but I have begun studying the book of Exodus. God has really been speaking to me to guard against circling the mountain, spending 40 years in the wilderness. I need to keep my ears and heart tuned to His voice…I don't want to lose my way.

    Where the good deals are hiding.
    Clearance sales, girl! I always hit the clearance shelves/racks and stock up.

    What books you’re reading.
    Getting ready to read The Pursuit of God by A.W. Tozer.

    What ailments riddle your heart and flesh.
    My neck and shoulders have really been hurting. Planning to see a massage therapist this week. I'm also having a lot of pain in the joints of my fingers/hands. I have some arthritis, and it has begun to hinder me, at times, from doing what I need to do. I guess it's true when they say that growing old isn't for wimps!:p

    Whose coming for dinner.
    We're having dinner for two this evening…Bill and I will be eating together. 😉

    What’s on the menu for dinner.
    I'm trying a new recipe…barbecue meatloaf. It's supposed to be really good. I'll let you know.

    What you’ll be watching on TV tonight.
    I don't even know what's on! I'll probably find a rerun of CSI…I love that show.

    When you’ve known grace in the last 24 hours.
    Well, I was able to speak with you last night. 🙂 God gives me His mercy and a portion of His grace to get through each new day.

    What you're praying about.
    I'm praying for you, Billy, and your family. Praying, too, for some local friends as they fight the war against cancer. Praying for God's direction in my sons' lives. Praying for my brother.

    Generally speaking, any what, where, or when about your life.
    We pretty much covered that last night, when we talked! lol

    This was great…food for the soul, with no calories involved!

    Love you, sweet friend. Wish I could put my arms around you and give you a big hug.

  20. Yes, Elaine, you are correct. Beth's Inheritance study does NOT have homework. That's why we are doing it in the fall as it sort of laps over into the fall holiday season. But in a lot of ways I really miss the homework.

    Pimento & cheese is a favorite of mine too sis.

    This has just been such a HUGE blessing to read all these comments and to read your replies….makes me feel so much closer to you!

    You're a very special lady Elaine. We all know that!

    Marilyn…in Mississippi

  21. Hello sweet sis, praying love and peace over you today. This is a great idea. Feeling extra blessed today, I won your book from Iris, and received it in my mail today. Woo Hoo, looking so forward to reading your precious words. Enjoyed a yummy fried chicken salad for lunch sis.

  22. I love this, Elaine.

    What a totally "off" day it's been today. The kids were supposed to have a half-day of school today, followed by a trip to the orthodontist for my son to move along to the next step with his expander. Then, Scholastic book fair and parent/teacher conferences, and gymnastics later.

    Well, first the half day of school, and then the book fair and conferences, were canceled because of a tornado watch. The orthodontist appointment wasn't so great either–we ended up taking out the expander. We'll try again in a year or so. Gymnastics IS still on. The one NORMAL thing. And my husband is making dinner tonight – "dizzy dogs" – not sure exactly what they are, but he picked, and I certainly don't complain.

    My current Ladies' Bible study (which I am enjoying and learning SO much from) is on Forgiveness. The study is by Juanita Purcell, who has done a few other super ones.

    My son is going to be a Transformer for Halloween – and my daughter, SuperGirl. This is actually the very first time they will be experiencing trick or treating, now that we have NEIGHBORS. They're quite excited – but I'm still slightly conflicted about the whole thing. Praying about that.

    I just finished "Plot and Structure" by James Scott Bell and am now officially his groupie (hehe). SO much stuff in there! I've started "Blue Like Play Dough" by Tricia Goyer, which is starting out wonderful.

    Continuing to pray for you, my friend.

  23. With the threat of storms and power outages, I prepared a cold pasta salad and browned some hamburger patties for our 1:30 dinner. (We just snack at night.) As it turned out, I could have done a REAL dinner. The storm blew through quickly and did some pretty heavy damage only a mile from us – leaving us sitting safely WITH electricity.

    I'm tying up loose ends this week to be ready to go to IL to care for grandsons while our son & daughter-in-law travel to Ethiopia for first (of two) court dates required to adopt their new baby girl.

    I'm reading Dr. Swindoll's The Church Awakening and Belva Plain's Crossroads (Belva died last week at age 90+. I learned she wrote her first book at age 59 and decided to read at least one of her books.)

    I just took some oatmeal cookies out of the oven. I started with a mix and added some raisins AND chocolate & peanut butter chips. I have NO idea why I baked them.

    Wish you lived closer. I'd deliver!

  24. I wish you lived closer as well, Rebecca. I love oatmeal raisin, and if chocolate is involved, all the more! Goodness, mercy me, it sounds as if a ton of you are experiencing strong storms in your neck of the woods. Take cover and hunker down. Enjoy the gift of not having to be out in the mess!

    As for us, it's hot today, which isn't helping with my hot flashes in the least. We had a bit of rain yesterday, but where I'm at, we'll be lucky to have Fall temps at all. We just sort of move into Winter without notice.

    Oh, my good friend, Shirley, just sent me another beautiful sketch of a cardinal; she's so talented.

    As for what's for dinner, I've just called husband and given him the go ahead for takeout. He thinks he's hit the lottery.

  25. well, i'm about to go pick up my girl from speech therapy and then we're going to stop at mcdonalds. ugh, bad i know. if i peel all the skin off the chicken nuggets, hope can eat them. and the fries are supposedly gluten free so rhema and hope can eat them. i'll get a sweet tea for the caffeine/sugar boost. then we're going to the playground. it's an unseasonably warm day here in MA so we're going to take advantage of it before the rain comes.

    and guess whose coming for dinner tomorrow night? (technically it will be past dinnertime, but…) my husband!!! he'll finally be home home after his 15-month deployment to iraq.

    i love you. i'll be thinking of my sweet southern sister-friend (YOU) as i sip my sweet tea.

  26. I love your group!

    Here are my answers to what you want to know:

    What you’re having for lunch.
    I had leftover turkey sausage and couscous casserole

    What costumes your kids have chosen this year.
    My 16 year old son is having friends over for a bonfire and hot dogs…no costumes.

    What Bible study you’re working on.
    I'm checking out scripture that relates to what I'm learning from a book I'm reading called The Christian Atheist.

    Where the good deals are hiding.
    I found a great purse on sale online at eBag at a good price but it's still too expensive for me right now.

    What books you’re reading.
    Roaring Lambs and The Christian Atheist

    What ailments riddle your heart and flesh.
    The old panic attack stuff has resurfaced but I'm managing. Also my "barometer" knee and shoulder let me know the weather was about to change! lol

    Whose coming for dinner.
    Just dear hubby and son.

    What’s on the menu for dinner.
    Hamburger Helper Cheesy Enchilada

    What you’ll be watching on TV tonight.
    Not sure. Probably the Dancing With the Stars result show.

    When you’ve known grace in the last 24 hours.
    God gave me the grace to not engage dear son in an argument this morning. It's hard to let go when I'm right but I was able to, knowing it was not the right time to get into it.

    What you're praying about.
    healing for several people, my husband's job

    Generally speaking, any what, where, or when about your life.
    I continue to seek the Lord's guidance as to what is next for me as my nest empties.

  27. Jeneil… just got the Holy goose bumps all over me, along with a big smile across my face! I'll leave you two to dinner tomorrow night…

    Thank you, Father, for the gift of Brandon and for bringing him home safely to his family!

    PS: Don't worry about the bad mommy thing with the nuggets. My kids would starve were it not for McDonald's and Kraft Macaroni and Cheese. Just ask them.

    Prayers all around for a good transition; especially for little Rhema & Hope. Friends, if you haven't visited Rhema's Hope, then do so. You'll be blessed.

    peace~elaine

  28. Many of us are dealing with the issue of aging parents. I hear you, friends. What a transition to walk through. Thankfully, mine are healthier than me, but I am especially sensitive to those of you who are navigating this strangely, stirred waters. I used to work in a nursing home, so I am especially alert to these issues. Rest assured you will be in my prayers tonight as I wrestle my sleeplessness with talking to God.

    Not a bad exchange.

  29. Happy Tuesday Elaine and those how might stop and read my post.

    Today is a quiet day for the most part for me. I've been pretty tired healing and recovering from my accident and surgery. Just as you, Elaine, are going through your treatments. And I'm sure there's others as well.

    My lunch simply consists of a plain ole sammich (as I call sandwiches). Just some lunchmeat/cheese/mustard, Greek Olives stuffed with jalepano and garlic and some herbal tea. Last night's dinner was el yummo though… Mmmm… We went to a great BBQ place we'd never been to before. One of the owners was carrying on about spicy sauces. I said "Bring it on!" So, that he did. LOL I was like, where's the hot sauce after trying two that he brought to the table. He brought two more. One was hotter than insane. Only a drop will do. Well, since I love HOT & SPICY. I put two drops on one bite of meat. Whooooooooo Weeeee… that was what I call HOT SAUCE. It made my eyes and nose water. I love it! My husband, Paul, said I was "insane". Haha! I just roll that way! *wink*

    I haven't thought for enough into the day for dinner. I'll throw something together. Maybe cheeseburgers & home fries.

    We have to move to a new place before the end of the year… the stress involved in that… prayers please.

    I don't hear from my family much. They don't care much for me. It's been that way since forever with them. I'm sure if someone was ready to die they'd throw a guilt trip on me to get there and help deal with it. I don't let satan dictate my life. It's tough though.

    I've been lifting up prayers for a good number of situations and people. There's a great deal of hurting, ill and distressed lives out there.

    I enjoy my quiet time with the Lord each day. I have the luxury of spending my morning hours with HIM. He so blesses my soul. No specific Bible study per say. I've been following Mark Brown's Journey through the Bible reading daily on Facebook. Somehow, I got behind! I'll have to spend some time and catch up. I love reading the comments from people at how the scriptures speak to them. On occasion I agree with some of them and press the like on them. They express it so well there's nothing left for me to say. I just agree. God knows my heart and everyone else's too.

    I've been taking my time and taking in reading Francine Rivers' book: "Her Mother's Hope". I have the Amazon Kindle Reader for the Android phone and I use my phone to read. I can be laying in bed, sitting in the car or waiting room somewhere. I get lost in the reading. I love that type of writing.

    Anyway, that's my Tuesday. I can't think of anything else to share at the moment. I hope it adds to your day, Elaine. =-)

  30. Sweet Elaine,

    My day is full of the beauty of the season. Fall is upon us! And my children, who usually live in the city limits, are frolicking in the perfect mountain air. The leaves tickle their cheeks and their fancy. They are free to just be.

    We visited the small town of Highlands and traveled through the gorgeous countryside down Hwy 64. The winding roads took us by waterfalls and the vibrant colors of the Autumn trees.

    I wish you could be here! I will post some pictures this week on my blog if you want to see them!

    Thank you for your blog, your sweetness in being transparent and your willingness to share in life with us all!

    hugs,
    Donna

  31. I forgot about the dress up stuffs: My oldest DD was Abby from NCIS (tv show), my middle girl was a flapper girl and my youngest was a fairy. They dressed up for our church trunk or treat (held last weekend).

    And for supper we ate homemade white chicken chili!

  32. Thank you for your prayers, Elaine (re: aging parents). They are very much appreciated! (More than you can imagine!)

    In Christ's love, Joan

  33. Oh yes, I want to see any fall pictures! We're a bit colorless over here… and frolicking through the hills almost sounds magical! I'd love a break from my couch.

    Kimberly, I'm sorry for the loneliness I hear in regards to your family. I wish they were more involved with your life and good heart. You've been such a great friend to me, a constant source of encouragement!

    Oh, and Cindy… you'd be so proud of me; I'm working hard on NOT accumulating more stuff since our recent move this June. I did, however, venture over to a neighbor's yard sale and allowed my mom to buy me a killer antique, beveled glass, oak mirror for $4 and a foot stool for my new chair. Nothing fancy, but $10 was a whole lot better than paying $300 for the matching ottoman.

  34. Oh, and Ms. Francis called to take me to lunch tomorrow. You remember her… the snake killer with the tip of her cane? I can hardly wait to see what's on the menu…

  35. Love this idea, Elaine. Sorry I missed lunch, but better late than never, right?

    My lunch consisted of my usual — a banana, deli oven roasted chicken (yes, just the meat, no bread), and Fiber 1. Sometimes I throw some carrots in there. Pretty exciting stuff, huh? You probably think I'm crazy 🙂

    Right now I'm reading a non-fiction book — Terror By Night by Terry Caffey and James H. Pence. It's the story of how Terry's wife and two sons were murdered before their home was burned to the ground. He escaped, though shot multiple times. It's ultimately the story of how God goes on to bring healing and hope to Gary and brings him to a point where he is able to minister to others. An amazing story…

    Gotta run for now. Hope you're enjoying getting your fellowship well filled to overflowing. Hugs!

  36. Elaine – well precious friend it is way past lunch and dinner time here – but today was a sad one for our family. My Father-in-love found out that his cancer spread from his mouth/throat to his lungs. He was diagnosed almost to the day last year (on my husbands birthday) with stage IV cancer. He went through 7 straight weeks of chemo. We don't know what the treatment plan will be yet. However, we are hoping that this news will in some way cause our family and parents to ask how we have such peace during this time.

    Would you please join us in praying for our family and my husband?

    I would love to sit with you have lunch – talk about the ways God's grace shows up minute by minute some days and how His love overwhelms me every single day!

    I would love to talk about the deep spiritual truths He is speaking to me as I read His word daily with our children and then listen to my husband teach each night.

    I know we would cry, laugh and sit in awe of our KING!

    Big hugs and much love!
    Jill
    Praying for you now!

  37. Of course I will, Jill, and for any other readers out there, would you join me in praying for Jill and her family? Cancer knows no limits; it isn't selective in whom it touches, and it is a force to be reckoned with. Just this morning, we learned of a precious friend in our former church who went home to be with Jesus via his cancer. And another friend called with the news that her husband's cancer (my age) has now spread to his brain.

    And here I am, knowing a bit of what you know, and I am saddened by the ill-effects of a disease that simply should not be. I know that all of us have had cancer touch our lives in some way; it reaches long and wide and high and deep.

    But so does our Father. Even more so. He walks our cancer with us, not apart from us. How I pray for God's strength to be our "all" in the days and seasons to come.

    No matter the road you're on.

  38. Elaine,
    I could not believe it when I read that you grew up in Wilmore!
    You see I left my precious son at Asbury College in August 2003 and so my life is enterwined with that special town. Now he works in the IT department of the Seminary and by the way needs to meet a godly gal to link his life with. Any suggestions??? =)
    So, dear one, I have been deeply touched by your writing and the trial set before you.
    My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer in the fall of 1978.
    Our gracious Father gave her 30 more years of life, walking her into eternity in 2008 via lung cancer.
    It was so impactful to walk that journey with her, along with all of her other ailments. I was blessed by your post regarding not being able "to get inside" another's pain to "help" and yet now understanding the "distance" better.
    I would cherish some time with you and am praying for you.
    Love in the Lamb~ Jess

  39. Thanks Elaine! AMEN! to your precious comment back to me!

    Praying with you for those who you mentioned as well!

    Much love tonight – resting in His all sufficient grace and healing LOVE!

    Hugs,
    Jill

  40. Ah Jess… another lover of Wilmore! I grew up there and know most everyone at the seminary! It is a special place to me; always will be. My folks moved to NC in recent years to be close to us, and now more than ever, I am grateful for their close proximity! Still and yet, my heart bleeds KY blue, and especially for all the fond memories that belong to me because of that hallowed ground!

    Oh we could have a lot to talk about…

    peace~elaine

  41. I'm glad you opened lunch for all day since I'm just getting here at quarter passed eight – Satsuma time.

    Lunch for me was cheese sticks and assorted nuts today … just didn't feel like eating much — bitter-sweet news this morning — a baby that my internet circle sisters had been praying for since his birth one month ago went home to JESUS just before Midnight. Sweet because he got to see JESUS Face to face never having chosen to sin against Him. But his mom and dad and big brother are hurting so.
    And I had the privilege since son-in-law was pulling a double and my daughter, I call her Little Girl (cause she is the older one — the other one is Baby Girl) was working passed pickup time to fetch two of my precious GRANDS and take them home.
    And then it was race home and do supper for my beloved and me… walmart's rotisserie chicken and my own salad fit the bill for supper nicely.
    And now I'm about ready to call it a night but so glad I got to say hello to you first.
    Elaine, knowing you via this blog and praying for you, receiving strength from you is such a GOD thing. I am grateful.

    Love and holy hugs!!

  42. Oh my Elaine, I could write for days about what I did today. 🙂 I do my devotions when I first get up – a glass of iced chai tea latte, my Bible, my journal and my prayer journal got back in the bed this morning with the mattress warmer on and the early morning cool breeze coming off the lake through my window. I skipped breakfast, I know – not the best thing to do – showered and dressed and was off to do errands. I have allergy shots on Tuesday, stopped in Kroger to replenish my Tazo chai tea, then shopped, actually shopped at Dillards. Bought 3 pairs of shoes for the winter, one outfit and 2 pairs of slacks for church. I lost 20 pounds this year so I had to go 2 sizes lower…kudos to God who walked me through that! A quick trip to the library and home to a few Ritz crackers with light cream cheese, and a banana with a little peanut butter. I'm having a little problem with low potassium so I'm trying to beef it up! I walked a mile and a half this afternoon, snacked for supper since my husband was driving the van for a local Christian medical clinic tonight, and then Swiffered, mopped and waxed the dining room and kitchen. I have company coming – could you guess? 🙂 Six high school girlfriends (class of 1964) will be here Friday for a couple of days. I know you're probably not feeling like reading posts right now but I wrote about our relationship today – kind of like your ancients. And yesterday wrote about the "winter" of our lives – my term instead of ancients. We're walking side by side dear in our thoughts! I'm tired now so I'll soon be in bed. I wish you a good night's rest with peaceful dreams. BTW, it was so beautiful here on the lake late this afternoon I just had to ask God – is this what heaven is like? This is so beautiful – but I know heaven is even more beautiful! He has blessed me with a peaceful place to live. blessings, marlene

  43. Elaine:

    Today was a day dedicated to writing mostly. So lunch was the last drop of homemade chicken soup, some Triscuits and cheese spread left over from Bible study last night and a piece of bread pudding and dump cake that one of the ladies brought for B.S. too! YUM!

    We just finished session #6 of 9 from The Inheritance [Beth Moore]. Session #6 spoke to so many who are facing great illnesses, etc. – there was not a dry eye in the house!

    Books I'm reading right now are these: Women of Passions [Ross & McDade] / Come Away My Beloved [Roberts] / Jesus Freaks = Martyrs
    [dc talk]

    I'm praying through my 19 page prayer list [all my blog sisters are on it] but I pray 2 pages each day. God is answering with miracles!

    I'm living my life as if today is my last day on earth. Though I've done some dumb things here and there that I wish I could take back.

    I heard a talk today that said that a good apology consists of 3 things:
    1. I'm sorry.
    2. It's my fault.
    3. What can I do to make it right?

    I've decided to try to follow that advice no matter who is at fault. I'm also committing myself to the 100/0 Principle of life – where I take 100% responsibility for each relationship in my life [this is a hard one] expecting '0' in return.

    I desire more than anything to serve people [making meals for them], invest in people, share God's Word in teaching whenever He gives me the chance.

    He's given me some poetry to write recently that is a joy to my heart as He places the words on the paper! I just want to please Jesus – since He did so much for me!

    I'm still in much pain with the affliction that I suffer from – but Jesus carries me on the days that are too hard for me! But I'm going down swingin' the bat and connecting to the ball – no called 'strikes' over my plate!

    "REST" has been His word for me.

    I love you and pray for you often and still love every time I come here to visit!

    Choosing JOY, Stephanie

  44. You know, I feel like you've just hosted a humongous luncheon and we've all sat around and chatted,prayed,laughed and cried today! I love this!!! THank you! Loved all of the commnents!

    It's almost bedtime,and you know that I turn into a pumpkin at night, and the brain doesn't function really well!I do remember a few of the questions you posed at the Tuesday table!

    We ate chick-fil-a today becasue Jacob had a noon dentist app., and the restuarant was right across the street!

    I am reading Sun Stand Still by Steven Furtick because I saw him on Lysa T's blog last week. Great book! I had never heard of this preacher or heard of his book prior to this. And, turns out that Craig's daddy baptized him as an infant when they were in Moncks Corner! Small world!

    Grace–in abundance this week as mama is visiting us!

    I had no idea that Thelma had a last name!!! And, I grew up watching the original Scooby Doo!Mercy!Take pics for me of the kiddos!

    I have some lovely fall pics that I took today before the storms hit! I'll share them with you.

    K—I need to sleep. I love you bunches and will be praying for you as I fall asleep. I hope that you can get some rest since you have plans with that sweet little lady tomorrow.
    Hugs!
    Susan

  45. I would love to fellowship at the table with you, precious friend. I would ask you if God has spoken a rhema Word to you today and ask you to share it with me and then I would hold you close and pray it over you.

    I did not have lunch today. For supper I made a green salad with cheese enchilladas.

    My fun-loving husband loves masks and wants to usher Sunday morning wearing his old man with the shriveled up face mask. I told him "no."

    I am reading The Power of Praying for your Adult Children by Stormie Omartian.

    My husband is getting a lot of my prayers. He has a mean cough that won't go away and lost his taste. The doc thinks sinus.

    Soon I will watch Dancing With The Stars!

    Love and prayers,
    Mary

  46. How sweet of you to ask, my love!

    I just spent the weekend in Maryland celebrating my husband's parent's 50th anniversary. It was beautiful. An altar. A memory stone. Living a legacy. Their legacy. Because of their love and commitment I have been the beneficiary of my husband's devotion. And my son got to witness it and be a part of it and honor his grandparents and realize that love can last a lifetime.

    Well, I'm still on east coast time so I'm thinking about heading to bed… but I didn't want to wait a moment to let you know that you are on my mind and heart throughout every day.

    Yesterday I spent hours praying for you. I started knitting your hat on the flight out and completed it on the flight back. Well, it is almost done. I have to weave in the loose ends and add a special touch but it will soon be on it's way. I love praying for those who will receive my knitted gifts of love. Especially hats. Knowing that the prayers are right there on the top of your head… pouring down over your very thoughts. Knowing those prayers will be answered.

    Tuna fish sandwich on double fiber bread with cucumber chips (the long sandwich slices) and made with light Kraft mayo. Chips and a bit of salsa. Bottle of water. Normal lunch routine.

    See you for lunch tomorrow!

  47. Hey Elaine!

    I stopped by earlier today before I ran out the door to the dentist and wanted to stop back by to get in on your Tuesday table….it's still Tuesday here in AZ and 34 degrees and feeling very much like fall this evening!

    Your words about missing your Tuesday bible study and fellowship with your ancients sparked floods of memories within my mind and heart. When I lived in FL years ago I had a ladies bible study every Tuesday in my home and as our group grew we eventually moved to the church fellowship hall. Each and every one of those precious gals enriched, encouraged and blessed me so. The Lord knit our hearts together in such strong ways and as I reflect now upon those times it almost brings tears to my eyes. We cried together, laughed together, prayed together, encouraged one another, and yes just as you and the ancients fellowshipped over pizza every Tuesday after Bible study, we did the same at a similar restaurant and much fun was had by all. Tuesday was a special day of delighting in the Lord and one another. And wow do I miss those times! Thank you for taking me down memory lane, Elaine!

    Well, as far as my plate today….Soup was the only thing I could eat this evening. I had a tooth crack a few days ago and my dentist was able to work me in and it turned out that I had to have a crown….bummer! So Campbells homestyle chicken noodle soup and two tylenol was on the menu for me.

    From the dentist office I went to the nursing home like I do most days to visit my sweet mama. She's 91 and you may recall I've posted prayer requests for her…..she's had a bad fall resulting in several compression fractures in her spine and two strokes since Jan. The last several weeks her health has been declining and my heart is breaking. It is sooo difficult to watch my once vibrant, Southern Belle Sweet Mama like this. But, I know that in His time she will simply step from this earthly realm and into the arms of the Love of her life….King Jesus! As for your question about Grace…..I have experienced an extra portion of Grace to walk with my sweet mama through this last season of her life…..And I don't how I could possibly do it without His Grace applied to my heart and emotions….Thank You Lord!!!

    I'm currently studying Ruth….The Lord has really confirmed some things through this book that I've been praying about, PTL! And also, studying Jeremiah.

    That's pretty much my Tuesday, Elaine. Fall temps, broken tooth, drilling (ouch), crown, chicken soup, sweet mama visit and all!

    Praying that you had a blessed Tuesday and His presence overflowed your plate this day and always!

    You are in my thoughts and prayers, dear friend!

    HE IS FAITHFUL!

    Love and Hugs!
    Jackie

  48. Elaine…….I don't know what in the world happened with my comment…..It had a mind of it's own apparently and posted six times!! lol!!! Sorry about that!!!……I deleted the duplicates!!!

    Blessings! : ))

  49. What a great idea this was…loved hearing from all your readers too! I'm a HUGE Jan Karon fan…I visualize her as Cynthia in her novels. I can't wait to run over to our Big Lots to see if I too can find that book for $5! Can't wait to get hold of the newest in the Father Tim series. I read her entire series during a stressful time of my life and it always took me into another world as a little escape, and I came out feeling blessed!

    Hubby and I were visiting a local ministry last night, which I posted about when I got home. I came home with a full yet very humbled heart. I'm overwhelmed to see God carrying out His promise to bless a thousand generations of those who love Him. The Karen people living in Burma first eagerly received the Gospel from missionaries about 200 years ago…now that they are being persecuted, God has made a way of escape by allowing them to begin resettling in other countries, taking the Gospel with them!

    I know your ancients missed you as you missed them. We never know, do we, when life can abruptly change for us, and what a great reminder to live in the moment…

    I just finished "wrapping" your little gift and will get it to the post office today. So YOU are on my mind this morning and I am praying God's blessing and healing power into your life today.

    Have a GOOD one!

  50. Good morning, friends! I see that Tuesday lunch has carried over into Wednesday breakfast, and that's just fine with me. I'll try and keep it brief…

    After moments of weeping over my ever-increasing bald head, I finally found some rest last evening. Thank you, Father.

    Now, I don't know about you, but a day with Marlene at Stitchin by the Lake seems in order. Mercy, that woman can move and get more done in a day than most of us in a week! And Sheri, I desperately need a soft hat to wear at night. I've always admired your handiwork from a distance. Now I get my very own… I can't wait.

    Stephanie, I loved your take on taking responsibility. I think we'd all be better off to apologize all over the place rather than placing blame. How much energy do we expend on behalf of our pride?

    And so many of you studying the Word of God in various ways, various sections, various groups! Don't you know that our Father is pleased when he looks down from heaven and sees us all flipping through holy writ to take hold of him? Would you do that today? Take a few moments to immerse yourself in his story? I plan on doing that just now.

    And then Ms. Francis will be by to pick me up for lunch at the Bordeux lunch counter. And then I'll have Bible study tonight with my 12 and Jonah. It's going to be a good day in Jesus. Thanks for filling my plate with all your random goodness. Maybe we'll do it again next week… on Tuesday. And as time allows me the rest of the week, I'll be over to your blogs to check on you. If you'd still like to weigh in with lunch, feel free.

    You honor me with your time, love and prayers. What a joy to walk this road with you.

    PS: Looks like Father Tim might make it on some Christmas lists this year…

  51. Well…isn't this just fun 🙂 I'll answer with Tuesday's happenings:

    Lunch – oops..skipped lunch! Around 2pm I had a banana and a chocolate chip granola bar.
    What costumes your kids have chosen this year – no costume for my 18 yr. old
    What Bible study you’re working on – currently doing two: Beth Moore's "The Inheritance" and Priscilla Shirer's, "One-In-A-Million"
    Where the good deals are hiding – they're still hiding!!! Sorry can't help you there…it's Canada..eh!
    What books you’re reading – "Sun Stand Still" – Steven Furtick, "The Weathering Grace of God" – Ken Gire, "The Untroubled Heart" – Micca Campbell
    What ailments riddle your heart and flesh – uncertain…physcially – more medical tests today at 4pm…emotionally – loneliness…spiritually – thirsty (but that's a good thing!)
    Whose coming for dinner: Chris comes home tonight…but won't be here in time for dinner. Gord is working late…as always..so I eat alone.
    What’s on the menu for dinner – leftovers!
    What you’ll be watching on TV tonight – not a TV watcher, but might pop in a movie.
    When you’ve known grace in the last 24 hours – a new friend extended grace to me yesterday afternoon and it has had a powerful effect.
    What you're praying about – oh my goodness girl…so much…family, marriage, health concerns, heart concerns, a prodigal, strength to flee temptations, direction, the list goes on and on…and praying for you Elaine. Love ya so much.

    What did you do yesterday?
    Hugs,
    Joy

  52. wifeforthejourney:

    Another fun moment with elaine! I know how you have missed your Tuesday lunches – this is a creative alternative. You know what I'm up to today – its called "trying to keep up."

    I love starting and ending my days with you. Nothing is easy about this season in our lives, but joy remains a constant companion. Thanks be to God for the company of friends and His Peace for the journey!

    Love you,
    Billy

  53. Lunch? A TV dinner, yuck.
    My 21 year old daughter wants to be a flamingo dancer, I believe, without all the skin showing.
    I'm in a Bible study called "Portrait of Intimacy". It's by a Christian Counselor and friend.
    "So Long Insecurity" by Beth Moore is the book I am now reading.
    Tonight, not much TV, going to church.
    Dinner is whatever they are serving at church–it will definitely be good.
    I'm praying about my daughter and the boyfriend.
    Right now with hubby out of work and in a clinical depression, Mom dealing with life in a nursing home, daughter getting ready to graduate from college and some wrong choices she is making in life, me getting over knee surgery… Lots going on right now. But, I am learning that it is from God that I get contentment, signficance and security.

    Sheryl

  54. Oh, please keep us posted about lunch with Ms. Francis…I loved hearing about your first outing with her!

  55. What you’re having for lunch.
    I had chicken salad on a croissant..yum!
    What costumes your kids have chosen this year.

    T1- a police officer
    T2- Iron man
    What Bible study you’re working on.

    Stepping Up by Beth Moore

    Where the good deals are hiding.

    What books you’re reading.

    In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day
    Jesus Christ Disciplemaker
    A Dave Ramsey Financial book

    What ailments riddle your heart and flesh.
    Currently in this moment my womanhood hormones!!!

    Whose coming for dinner.
    My family of three amazing boys!

    What’s on the menu for dinner.
    Shrimp and pasta salad

    What you’ll be watching on TV tonight.
    Not sure…the what is not the highlight…its the who I sit next to…the Engineer!

    When you’ve known grace in the last 24 hours.
    From both a friend and the Engineer who spoke truth into my life and pushed me straight into Gods way!

    What you're praying about.
    For you! And for a continued amazing relationship with my Jesus to be lived out in every moment…and praising Him for a peace that I truly sense in these moments!

    Generally speaking, any what, where, or when about your life.
    You are loved my friend! I am thankful for this 'avenue' of being in your life!

  56. Dear lady…what a fine idea…and a full plate you must have from the outpouring of cyber-fellowship…your husband's comment was the sweetest one and brought tears to my eyes…you are such a special sister…praying for your plate to always be overflowing with love and peace….

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